Making A Great First Impression On Women

 

By Tiffany Taylor

ALWAYS look your best. I know this sounds REALLY obvious but you'd be surprised by how many men don't understand the importance of this simple tip. You never know when the girl of your dreams will turn up, or where. And it’s become a bit of a cliché because it’s true -- first impressions really do count.

Here are some figures to consider from my studies.

If you make a GOOD first impression on a woman, you have a 90% chance of EVER getting with her at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be unreachable for most men at ANY point – she might like women herself etc).

If you make a BAD first impression your chances with her reduce drastically to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3 minutes of meeting her will be incredibly difficult if her first impressions of you were bad.

It’s the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly up one. Good first impressions means you’re on your way to the top in the helicopter, bad first impressions means you have a difficult climb to success – no helicopters for you.

Honestly, I can't stress this enough -- always try to look your best.

Tiff’s 5 S’s of first impressions.

Shave. Shower. Stylish. Smell. Shoes.

Remember these 5 S’s and always take care of them before you go out.

Why are shoes my number 5 S?

Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your clothing and hence your appearance. Make sure your shoes are clean and fashionable.

What you wear is very important. I could try to recommend a certain look but as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed.

Get the latest GQ magazine or other fashionable men's magazine's and imitate the styles you see there -- most women don't really care what labels you are wearing as long as you look good so you don't have to spend the Earth on clothing.

Many guys I help dress better usually comment on how strange they feel wearing clothes they are uncomfortable in, but nine times out of 10 they start to feel natural and even confident wearing their new wardrobe within days.

Make sure you smell good. Again this is extremely important. Remember how you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good - you feel an instant attraction even though you don't know her - well, that's how women feel too.

Wear a good-quality cologne, but don't spray too much.

One squirt on both sides of the neck, and one squirt on both wrists -- maximum. You don't want to smell too overpowering.

I recommend cool water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often called JPG love juice because women love it) if they don’t sell it where you are try to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT!

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8 Types Of Women To Avoid Dating

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by Melinda Sessa

A recent survey revealed that fifty two percent of men date for intimacy. Men are looking for that someone to get romantically involved with and a potential mate for life. There are women that a man should avoid dating. Here are signs to watch out for:

1.  The overly feminist. This type of woman assumes and believes man is the cause of all the pains and suffering of a society. It is her strong belief that women are much more intelligent than men and are capable of doing things “the correct way”. Men would not want to spend some time with these types of women, anything that a man will do will always be negative to them. They can never be pleased by a man.

2.  The material girl. She is just after the money! These types of women are “high maintenance”. They not just expect, but often demand that a man should finance all her luxuries in life. To her, the man has the responsibility to pay for dinners, drinks, trips, jewelry, flowers etc. while she absolutely feels compulsion or guilt to reciprocate. Simply put, she is a prostitute in disguise. She is a greedy person, having no perception of the feelings of others and her only concern is achieving and obtaining things that she wants. Never be fooled; some appear to be really nice at first, until they know that you would do anything for them. Then the asking for material things starts!

3.  The hopeless romantic. These women live inside a perfect world of romance in novels, where love and relationships are perfect and her night and shining armor will always come and they will live happily ever after. She has always been pampered by her and considered a "princess," thus have no idea that what the real life is. She will expect the man to take care of her constantly and that all her wishes be given; if not, she can turn out to be a screaming nag.  

4.  The angry girl. Similar to the feminist, she actually hates men. They often look down on men accounting a long list of all the injustice and transgressions of every guy that they shared a relationship with. To her, all men are "creeps", "pigs." and jerks. These women have boiling rage at men that can, at any given moment explode.

  5.  The insecure Miss. They will seem to be very pleasant, loving and accommodating at first, treating men very well. Later, when all her innermost insecurities go up the surface, she can be annoyingly calling the man she is dating at least ten times a day, asking where are you, or that she just missed your voice. This woman demands frequent and persistent reassurance that you love her and you find her attractive; because of this insecurity, she worries continuously about her hair, make up, clothes etc. She can be clingy, needing constant attention and insistently torments you with her thoughts that you will leave her soon if you find someone better.

6.  The abstract or elusive type. She is romantic but with a mysteriously dark side. She has been hurt in past relationships and has not gone over it. These bad experiences drive her to subconsciously stay way from or damage her new relationship. She will be very frustrating to deal with, as at first, she will show a lot of interest with the man, however runs away very quickly; she will repeat this cycle again and again. She will date and flirt with the man, but will insist that they both remain as friends.

7.  The desperate Miss. She is desperate to get married. She does not even choose to know the man; she just wants to trap him and bring him to the nearest altar!

8.  The controlling type. She can be very nasty in a very subtle way, but when given the opportunity, will direct each phase of a man’s life. She will always have a say as to what the man wears, where must the man go, who should the man talk to, who can a man have as friends, what a man can and can not eat; as in everything! The man can not insist on his own rights or else, there will be no sex, a lot of crying, screaming, pouting and everything just so the man will give in. To all men, careful!

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Online Dating Advice for Men - Dating Tips and Advice

Dating advice for men comes in many forms. Every time I sit down with a single buddy from work, whether it's at the coffeehouse or in the break room, the subject dating comes up. Usually I'll hear about what a great time they had, but lately I've been hearing stories of dates that just didn't go very well. I'm always being asked for dating tips and advice. All I can tell you is what I do.

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1) Listen to Her - You don't have to fall over yourself and swoon at every word she says. You do have to be polite and pay attention to her part of the conversation. Don't be checking your watch or start reading the menu when she's talking. Oh, and don't interrupt her. Talking over her to let her know that the next table's Steak Diane just caught the restaurant on fire, is, of course, acceptable. This is probably some of the best dating advice for men that I have received myself.

2) Ask an Open Ended Question - Questions she can answer with a simple yes or no mean you're going to have to keep on digging for something to talk about. A question about "why did you pick the career you did" is much better that "Where do you work?" This date advice for men is really one of my most successful tactics.

3) Try Some Sincere Flattery - This is a tricky one. Too much and you're over the edge. Too little and you might as well not have said anything at all. If you feel uncomfortable paying her a compliment on her appearance, try something a little more neutral. "Nice briefcase" might have to be it.

4) Be Honest and Sincere - Nothing is worse than a braggart. No one wants to hear how an endless recitation of someone's accomplishments. No one wants to sit through an evening of insincere comments and commentary. You don't have to be blunt, but you do have to simply be yourself. Always remember this dating advice for men on your date as it could end up saving it.

5) Remember What Your Mother Taught You - Remember those lessons in manners as well as the dating tips and advice your mother gave you? Open the door. Pull out a chair. Help her on with her coat. Chivalry is not dead and women, even the liberated ones, still like a gentleman who treats her like a lady.

Keep this online dating advice for men in mind. Try them out next time you're on a date. Simple things like this can change a date from marginal to absolutely stellar.



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Larry Haywood
Larry Haywood runs the website MyDatingTips.info which reviews the best dating personals sites online.








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Dating Over 40 - Why Married Men Find You Attractive

By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Ronnie_Ann_Ryan]Ronnie Ann Ryan

Sometimes my women clients find themselves in a rut of attracting married men. This is actually different than being attracted to married men. There are a number of reasons why married men might find you attractive:

1.  If you're dating in mid life, there are lots of married or unavailable men - that's just a fact. According to the census, 50% are taken, but that doesn't mean they stop looking or (for some) stop considering their options.

2. You are attractive. If you're a good looking woman who keeps herself in shape, men are going to look. This is actually positive because it proves that you are attractive. Think of this as flattery and evidence from the Universe of your appeal. But keep in mind, you don't need to follow up with any of these unavailable men.

3.  You're new, you're fun, you're fresh meat. This resembles the "New Cow Theory" from the movie of the same name with Ashley Judd and Hugh Jackman. The idea being that with cattle, bulls never want to mate with the same cow twice. They always want a new cow because they are ensuring survival of the species. Now women are not cows and men are not bulls, and all men don't always need a new woman. But some married men do have that grass is greener attitude.

However, all women do not run into this problem with the same frequency. For some, it seems like the only men attracted to them are married. So what's at the bottom of this attraction situation? Here are a few reasons why this might be happening. Maybe there's a part of you that:

Doesn't really believe you'll find a decent, available guy

Thinks all the good men are taken

Believes all men are scoundrels

Worries that you'll never have a good relationship


These beliefs can really get in the way of meeting single, available men. But I do have two powerful suggestions that may help shift your focus to imagining and MANifesting the right man for you:

1. Start believing that there are great single men out there. Think positively along these lines several times a day. Shifting your thinking opens you to more possibilities. Everyone wants to be right. Maybe you remain right about men, when you attract cheaters - proving your point - that there are no good men. Start believing there ARE good men, and make yourself right by finding evidence of good men out there.

2. Ask yourself, "What am I doing to meet men and am I really open to getting to know different types of guys? This exercise can be very revealing because often women discover they say "no" far more often than "yes" to meeting new men. See if you can say "yes" to a broader spectrum of guys online or where ever meet them and just try to get to know them as people. There are no perfect men (or women) but chances are very strong that there is someone just right for you.

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7 Stupid Things Guys Do That Can Turn Women Off Fast

By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Benjamin_Wise]Benjamin Wise

So you finally got the courage together to ask her out and your getting ready to go out on you first date with her. Right now you may feel on top of the world and the wind is at your back.

1/ Learn to listen, in other words do not keep talking all the time. None one of us like being around people who just can't shut up. They may be the nicest people in the world, but their tendency to keep talking makes being in their company a little painful.

The first thing she will do as a result of this is look for reasons to not go on a second date. You would probably do the same if the roles were reversed.

2/ Talk about yourself all the time, you know conversation as I understand it is about sharing. If one is so interested in themselves to the degree that they cannot do anything else but talk about themselves - then I am afraid she may start looking for the exits.

3/ Insecurity, in actual fact both of the last two points can revolve around insecurity. The fact is this, if you are insecure and come off as needy, then there is no question that you will make yourself unattractive. Women do not like guy's who are insecure.

4/ Do not go over the top with flowers and gifts. This can in some effect indicate that you are desperate. When you shower her in gifts she may get the impression that you are trying to buy her affection. Remember it's the thought that counts, keep it simple and subtle.

5/ Over complimenting, this one is kind of funny, here you are thinking you are doing the right thing, telling her she is beautiful every five minutes, when all the while she is thinking you lived on a mountain for ten years by yourself and she is the first woman you have met since you came down off the mountain, which leads me to point number six.

6/ Do not make her uncomfortable, in other words do not get too close too fast. Giver her space, let her do as much talking as possible, do not over engage and more importantly listen to what she is saying as this will reveal what makes her comfortable.

7/ Do not over or under dress - keep it casual; make sure your teeth are clean. Also make sure that there is no hair protruding from your nose or ears. Make sure your breath does not stink.

To conclude, a lot of this is common sense, make her comfortable, find out what her hot buttons are and engage in good conversation and before you know it you will be going on that second date.
Guy's if you are serious about getting the girl of your dreams then you need to seriously work on solid techniques to achieve your goal. If you know what a girl is thinking it is far easier to approach her.

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How Do Average Guys Become Desirable or "HOT" Instantly?

Super hot girls remarkably have one thing in common, besides that fact they're HOT!   They will test you and if you fail these tests, you will not not hook up with them. End of story!  You will be tossed to side like a piece garbage like the countless piles of men she's had to reject because they weren't confident enough.

However, guys the GOOD news is, that there is a way to ace these tests nearly 100% of the time.

If you know the strategy to passing, then you are going to be in the VERY small percentage of guys who make it through her defenses and are really a sexual candidate. And most really hot girls' tests are enough to make many men run for the hills. If you don't know this one secret tactic, you will fail miserablys and never get the opportunity to attracting and seducing incredibly gorgeous women.

These tests can be one of two forms: compliance tests or congruence tests. Today, we are talking about compliance tests. First, let me explain a bit more about these tests and WHY hot women NEED them.

A compliance test is an act or a statement that checks to see if you are going to do whatever she wants. If you comply, she will have gained control over the conversation, the interaction, and you. It seems like they want you to fail these tests so they have the power, right?

Why do gorgeous "HOT" women use these compliance test?  It is their way of filtering out a truly confident, attractive guy from the rest. It may sound strange, but beautiful women honestly can't just look at a guy an say "he's good looking, therefore he's attractive." They need much more because they are approached by so many different types of guys. A really attractive girl will get hit on 10-15 times A DAY.   So, the reality women give compliance tests, they really do want you to pass them.

That's 3,650 times a year (conservatively) that an attractive woman is hit on. She will start to see patterns in the ways guys behave if they are actually confident or not, and that has nothing to do with looks.

The compliance test is really a test to see whether or not they're going to be able to get away with whatever they want. Why you want to test this? Well, they want to find out whether or not you're used to beautiful women hitting on you or whether or not you're used to being with beautiful women.

This is an extremely critical componenet. If you are used to being with beautiful women, you will not bend over backwards for a beautiful woman just because she wants something.  But instead, you will respond in a way that sort of puts the compliance back on her.

Beautiful women are guaranteed to give you compliance tests and if you fail the compliance tests, you are guaranteed to turned them off completely and not attract them.  So it's immensely important  that you learn this.

So what is an example of a compliance test? Basically, look for any demand that she gives you within a short time of meeting that seems small, but gets you to follow.

One very traditonal compliance test is "buy me a drink."

Women go for throat here when you're in the bar because they don't have a much time to determine who is attracted and who is confident, who's not. How you respond to "buy me a drink" is very crucial when you're in a bar.

There are other small things like "why don't you wait here while I go to the bathroom." or "give me a kiss on the cheek" or even "will you take a picture for us?"

They seems kind of harmless but they are not.  With the compliance test  she is measuring your self confidence and character.  You need to comply, however, what you want to do is take control over it and add your own conditions.

For instance, if someone says, "Take our pictures." Then you will say, "okay, I will but I want you to take one picture for you and one picture of how I ask you to take it." So if they refused to do this, and you go, "Alright, well find some other guy."

You will actually find some other guy to take the camera and say, "Hey man, can you take their picture?" And you just have them take your picture.

But usually they will say okay fine, you take the picture and you go "okay, now I want you to give me a sexy look." Then take their picture. "Okay now, make a silly face", take a picture. And continue to make them do different pictures as long as you can think of them.

In other words,  what you're doing now is you are getting compliance from them. This is vital. This is called flipping the script and you will hear a lot about this. Flipping the script is one of the most powerful things that you can do to a woman that you don't know and it will build a huge amount of intrigue and a huge amount of attraction.

So from now on, know and recognize when women is giving you a compliance test. Don't stop and don't reject the compliance test. Just add your own terms or conditions.

After you start doing this, you are going to see the really beautiful women in the bar start to treat you in a completely different manner. You'll see other guys naively approach beautiful women,  get turned down.  And subsequently it'll ruin their nights.  But on the other hand, you'll  know how to "roll" and easily navigate the sea of compliance tests and come out looking like a rockstar. This makes these beauties more and more attracted because you're the kind of guy who won't just do exactly what they want.

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