7 Stupid Things Guys Do That Can Turn Women Off Fast

By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Benjamin_Wise]Benjamin Wise

So you finally got the courage together to ask her out and your getting ready to go out on you first date with her. Right now you may feel on top of the world and the wind is at your back.

1/ Learn to listen, in other words do not keep talking all the time. None one of us like being around people who just can't shut up. They may be the nicest people in the world, but their tendency to keep talking makes being in their company a little painful.

The first thing she will do as a result of this is look for reasons to not go on a second date. You would probably do the same if the roles were reversed.

2/ Talk about yourself all the time, you know conversation as I understand it is about sharing. If one is so interested in themselves to the degree that they cannot do anything else but talk about themselves - then I am afraid she may start looking for the exits.

3/ Insecurity, in actual fact both of the last two points can revolve around insecurity. The fact is this, if you are insecure and come off as needy, then there is no question that you will make yourself unattractive. Women do not like guy's who are insecure.

4/ Do not go over the top with flowers and gifts. This can in some effect indicate that you are desperate. When you shower her in gifts she may get the impression that you are trying to buy her affection. Remember it's the thought that counts, keep it simple and subtle.

5/ Over complimenting, this one is kind of funny, here you are thinking you are doing the right thing, telling her she is beautiful every five minutes, when all the while she is thinking you lived on a mountain for ten years by yourself and she is the first woman you have met since you came down off the mountain, which leads me to point number six.

6/ Do not make her uncomfortable, in other words do not get too close too fast. Giver her space, let her do as much talking as possible, do not over engage and more importantly listen to what she is saying as this will reveal what makes her comfortable.

7/ Do not over or under dress - keep it casual; make sure your teeth are clean. Also make sure that there is no hair protruding from your nose or ears. Make sure your breath does not stink.

To conclude, a lot of this is common sense, make her comfortable, find out what her hot buttons are and engage in good conversation and before you know it you will be going on that second date.
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