Why Women Sometimes Unknowingly Say and Do Things That Can Destroy a Relationship

 

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What happens when a woman goes through a difficult episode with a man?

She keeps flipping out...

This is how the it usually plays out...

A woman finds herself in a  complex and difficult circumstance with a man...

She doesn't know why he's acting the way he is....

Then she attempts to do what she thinks is the correct thing but it doesn't work...

She then feels stuck and  finally flips out.

It's no wonder so many women are living a life of  hushed anguish and anxiety.

In other words when women drive themselves completely bonkers by flipping out over and over again, it messes them up entirely.

And it doesn't stop here...

Many times, under such a predictament a woman unwittingly does and says things which drive a man further away...

Here are the two most common options women take...

1- They first try to persuade a man.

2- And if this option is ineffective, they try to squabble their way into his mind.

Often women mistakenly assume that if they can just describe their perspective or view to a man he will completely understand...

Unfortunately,  It doesn't work that way.  In most cases, you can never make him understand your situation. And worst of all, the harder you try, the further you will drive him away.

And when persuading him doesn't work, many women argue or fight.  And eventually when things get really bad, they use accusations and guilt to achieve their goal.

Here is a description of such situation...

Your man all of a sudden is becoming detached and indifferent.  And of course, you immediately assume that maybe he is planning to leave you. You first try to figure out why he is getting distant, but things aren't making any sense, as a result you flip out.

Then you attempt talk to him about it, you say things like - Honey! I don't know why you are  rejecting me? And acting the way your are, what have I done? Are you leavme? Have you found someone else? Let me know?  Tell me the truth!

And you still don't get the answers you need and then you tension and anxiety start turning into anger. You believe that you deserve answers from him...

And as a result you say things like...

I am so fed up from not getting answers from you. You aren't pulling your share of the weight in the relationship. I feel like I am the only one that cares and doing all the work.  And your selfish and only care about yourself. 

This is a fundamental mistake which can destroy the basis of a relationship. When you use this method a man only feels vilified and get even more detached  to avoid more ultimatums.

It's crucial to understand that you can't force him to understand your perspective of things.  And you are using a totally pointless strategy that will not work.

Fortunately, there are much better alternatives.   There are things you can do and say which will instinctively make a man want to be more forthcoming and unreserved about their feelings.  And give you all the love you need and be devoted to you for the rest of his life.

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Facebook Infidelity - Harmless Flirting Online Can Lead To A Full Blown Affair

By Jason Dee Dickson

 

Being a victim of a cheating partner it is indeed a painful experience. What makes it even a more haunting one is when your partner has been doing the wrong deed right under your nose, or in some cases, right in your computer. To avoid feeling stupid and sometimes, feeling responsible for keeping a blind eye to your partner's illicit Facebook activities it is indeed a good idea to explore more about this field.

There are millions of people engaged in Facebook each second. You can't blame it! It is indeed addicting to interact with people. There's a famous saying, "No man is an island", and this constant need of human beings to socialize and connect to its own specie dates back to early human civilizations.

Prehistoric men and women used to hold storytelling sessions with their tribes around bonfires during nightfall. This is part of their civilization. As humans, it is within our genetic make up to belong and be accepted in a circle, a group, a society.

With today's technological advances, the early storytelling rituals have evolved into an easier, faster and more convenient way of communication- sans bonfires and tribe leaders. Facebook has changed the course of sociology by simply reinventing the modes of long distance communication.

How powerful is Facebook?

Facebook defies distance. It doesn't matter if your friend is in Greece and you live in a small town called Wallah-Wallah, you can still gain access to his daily endeavors. Facebook defies time. It allows for two people, who have not seen each other for decades, to reconnect and update each other.
Facebook defies privacy. Today, we can tell exactly what one person is thinking, we can identify his whereabouts and even his most embarrassing photos on the internet can now be spread like wildfire. Thanks to

Facebook photo-tagging.

Unfortunately, because of these conveniences, we also need to pay a price. Facebook can also defy fidelity in a relationship. By simply clicking on old flames, we can get ourselves in a whole lot of trouble.

The works

It begins with a simple click of a button. You check your Friends Request List, and find out that your old classmate added you as her friend. Facebook then asks you, do you "Confirm" or "Ignore"? Many people do not understand that this is the most critical point in one person's social and emotional life. By confirming a friend into one's Facebook account, you are actually allowing this person to gain access to your life.

So which button do you click? How can you spare yourself from a potential damage to your current relationship? How can you tell if it is safe or if it's swimming in unchartered waters? These are just questions that will inevitably run into your mind at this point. And usually, if not all the time, we stick to our biological make up. We hit Confirm!

The next thing we know, we are chatting with the new and improved versions of our grade school seatmate who used to tease us about our high pitched laughs back then. And perhaps during that time the teasing seemed annoying, if not merely platonic, today these kinds of "harmless" teasing can seem endearing.

Thus, a little flirtation can go on. Taking a tour down memory lane as we rekindle with past crushes, ex love affairs, high school flings, college quarterback stars and even that hot ex-coworker whom we never got to date because we used to be too self conscious back then, can be truly very engaging.
Today it can be high school, college, or small town Temecula all over again. Although this can be good news to our social life, this is definitely bad news to our current relationships. Why? It is simply because it creates a bigger avenue for reconnecting with people we don't want our partners to know about.

Facebook and its relation to cheating

In the science of emotional cheating the concept is not focused on sexual activities. Emotional infidelity is actually more rooted on the side of emotional closeness. The desire of one person to feel more connected and comfortable with a person instead of his or her partner defines the gateway to all infidelity cases. Facebook is a tool that opens that gateway even wider.

If we open our eyes we can actually realize the many points of conversation there is available for our partners to discuss with their controversial Facebook friends. They don't even need to feel that uncomfortable nervousness in initiating conversations because Facebook gives them the privilege of a non personal approach.

This means that talking to your crush in person, for example, is even more threatening to the ego than sitting behind a computer and typing in your pick up lines. Internet communications makes you less vulnerable than personal correspondence.

Hence, writing compliments and flatteries on the comments box of one's Facebook photo or clicking on the "Like" button under his or her status can definitely open a whole can of worms in an existing relationship.

So how do we know which actions are safe and which are deal breakers? Good question.
First of all you need to ask yourself. What will I benefit from this? What is my intent? Say you are on the verge of accepting a friend request from an ex girlfriend. You need to be able to assess if your partner is okay with the idea and if you and that ex have clearly established a suitable closure to your romantic relationship because ever engaging in a platonic one. If not, then this may not be a good time to be clicking that "Confirm" button.

If we turn the tables around and you are contemplating about adding your ridiculously good looking next door neighbor into your Facebook friends, what is your intention behind this idea? Do you really just want him to be your friend? Or are you making things harder for yourself if he will begin flirting with you in Facebook? If so then better just skip him and go on to searching for your long lost relatives instead.

How do you know which comments are appropriate?

Again think first before you say what's on your mind. Do you ignite a fire by making flirty and sexually-provoking remarks about a friend's Beach Vacation album, such as "I'd like to get dirty on the sand too, LOL! Hahaha!"?

Or as a respect to your current partner, would you rather just write down neutral and safe comments such as "The weather looks nice out there!"? These are the simple yet very powerful things that one needs to consider before creating any emotional damage into your relationship.

What to do when Facebook flirtation gets initiated by other people?

Communicate with your partner! Inform him or her right away because sooner or later if that issue would be raised in the future and you have failed to let your partner know it can be used against you. Always make sure that your hands are clean in every situation.

What To Do If Your Partner Is Having An Affair?

Time To Act: Enough is enough.

Stop being the victim, stop living in self-denial, stop living in pain, stop living in agony and stop living in self-pity.

Be bold and take the first step in confronting the truth even if the truth is ugly and not what you want to know.

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Great Valentine's Day Gifts for Boyfriends

Great Valentine's Day Gifts for Boyfriends

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It is especially hard when you want to gift him with a present that expresses just how special he is to you. Selecting a gift may depend on how long he has been your boyfriend, if your relationship is relatively new than you might want to give him a gift that shows you like him, if your relationship is more advanced your gift should show just how you feel. Coming up with a Valentine's gift that is right for the current state of the relationship can be very troubling.

One the biggest problems are that women and men have different views points on the significant of Valentine's Day. Women put a great deal of importance into the romantic significance of the day, where as men view it more as a day of giving flowers and candy with a fancy card.

If the relationship is rather new, choosing a Valentine's Day gift for your boyfriend might be a challenge. One of the best ways to select a gift in the early stages of your relationship is to carefully consider your boyfriends interest. If he has a favorite sports team he follows consider tickets to a game or get him team shirt or hat so he can proudly show his team loyalty.

Instead of trying to find a romantic gift that would be symbolic of your feelings, try giving a gift that your boyfriend would appreciate for any occasion. More than likely he is not expecting a gift that is a gesture of love so a simple gift with his interest in mind would be the most appreciated. Gift subscriptions to magazines that he would enjoy or gift cards to his favorite store are other great examples of gifts to give.

Regardless, selecting the perfect gift for your boyfriend needs to reflect how you feel about him. He will appreciate your gift more when you take the time and put forth the effort in selecting a great Valentine's Day gift for him.

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Love Is An Irresistible Desire To Be Irresistibly Desired

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Do you remember the first time you saw them? Can you remember the way you felt when they looked at you for the very first time and smiled? Think back to the times when you couldn't wait to see them again. Can you remember all the time you spent planning your limited time together and how you took pride in not only the way you looked but what you did? The sun shined a bit brighter. The moon was a bit more blue than it has ever been and the very stars in the heavens were there for you and only you to make a wish but this time you didn't have to because it had already come true.

 

Love is the most natural high the mind, body and spirit can experience. Like a drug, we crave the way it makes us feel not only for the extraordinary emotion we feel but for the fact that we are loved right back. There is nothing in the world that can compare to it. Men and women have died in vain because of their forbidden love. The history books and literature throughout the globe are filled with love stories unparalleled with any work of fiction. There are no characters, only people who have felt the same thing you have including heartbreak and the feeling of emotional misery when it is not only taken away but stripped from their very lives never to see their lover again.

 

Poetry, music and artwork are filled with its beauty. "Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?" Famous epic battles have been fought in the name of love and glory. Men have sailed the seven seas to conquer those that oppose their queens and mother's of their homeland in the name of love. Like the old expression says:

 

"Love conquers all..."

 

When you look at love in a historical aspect, it really puts not only your current situation in a different light, but it also helps you to realize that your heartache is probably the same as someone else thousand's of centuries old though the situation and circumstances are different. Do you think the mistakes you might have made have not been made by so many throughout history? Are you an exception? With a heavy sigh, I proclaim "No at all." Sure you are special, but you are not an exception even though you might feel so alone in your heartache that you choose to draw inward and not let anyone in.

 

Think of it this way, I bet there have been many that have shown up at someone's castle or plantation under the cover of night and threw a pebble at the window to get the attention of a lover...just to say "I love you so much...I had to see you." DO you really think your situation is new? Do you feel all alone in your quest for getting your ex back? Not even close. There have been those that love and lost and there have been those that never loved...which would you want to be?

 

We learn from our mistakes but the key is to remember what those mistakes were. How do we know what was a mistake or not? How do you know that by doing nothing that your ex isn't at home praying that you show up and wrap your arms around them, look them in the eyes and say "I was a fool. I am not half the man/woman I am when I am with you." It sounds so perfect. We see the movies. We read the books. We hear stories all over the Internet on "How to get your ex back." The secret is only $29.95 with no money back guarantee. I love the one that says "Have you ex back in 3 days or less" for $49.99. I assume this is a book about kidnapping because let's face it; it's not going to happen.

 

All good things take time. Like I have always said, imagine your love between you and your ex like a gourmet meal. I don't want a microwave love affair. Who really craves the instant meal that all we have to do is add hot water. I want something that blossoms and takes time to prepare so that we can both enjoy it in the future; like a fine wine.

 

The secrets of love have been the same for centuries and that secret is this.

 

"If someone doesn't love you, no matter how hard you try to make them love you, it will almost always fail."

 

To all my seasoned veterans out there, you know exactly what I am talking about. Years ago, when I wanted to catch the eye of a certain beauty, I would do anything I was good at. It could be my sense of humor or even singing her a song. When all else failed, I figured "YOU MUST TRY HARDER!!". Oh the pain, suffering and humiliation I could have saved throughout the years. Men tend to have a competitive streak in them and when all else fails, be the exception.

 

To my male audience out there, can't you remember the times you would tell yourself, "I just have to try harder and stick this out. She will come around." Every little glance my love interest would show me I thought it was only for me. No matter if they looked at me and was thinking of someone else, I WANTED IT so BADLY to be for me. I would try so hard that finally I was so aggravated, not at them, but at myself that I usually ended up being their "Best Guy Friend". Ahhhh those were the days. Let me tell you, there is nothing harder than loving someone in secret and them confide in you about someone they love. You sit and smile and you look into their eyes as if to scream and wave your arms yelling "HEY!! I AM RIGHT HERE!! I LOVE YOU ....CAN'T YOU SEE ME!!! I LOOOOVE YOU SOOOO MUCH!!"

 

There is something harder...much, much harder.

 

To those that have felt this after a relations hip has turned sour, I feel for you. I honestly do.

I felt this over 4 years ago. It goes something like this. How can I describe such pain? Well, let me try. Heartache is one thing but having your heart ripped from your chest and stomped on is another. Naturally after a breakup that was not that bad, one or both parties, with time, might have possible regrets about breaking up. The minutes seem like hours and the hours seem like days. The phone never rings. The more you want the time to pass, the day drags on and the nights are so much worse that I can't begin to describe it. The walls begin to close in. The thought of yesterday's hug, a lingering last kiss, their smell in a pillow, their clothes they left, their picture, the songs you hear are always about breaking up or things that remind you of them. I think we all can relate.

 

Are you ready? Here it comes..now brace yourself.

 

*deep sigh*

 

The phone finally rings a week later. You jump over the couch like a gazelle and say a mild "Hello..". 'Um..Hello Dave? Yeah...Hey, It's Oh hey, how are you? Um..I am fine. I have been thinking about you a lot. Really?; So Have I. The smile on your face begins to form because the conversation is going well...so you think. I really miss you (blank). I miss you too. The conversation falls silent as your heart begins to beat out of your chest. The smile and mod begins to loosen.

 

"Hey, I was wondering if you would like to..." but you are cut off to the sound of 'Dave, I wanted to tell you that I am seeing someone else and I thought you should know.'

 

The wind is knocked not only from your lungs but from your soul.

"Hello...? Hello...are you there....?"

 

"Yeah I am here...Hey um...look; The tears begin to form before you can get off the phone. "I gotta go ok?...I will talk with you soon."

 

"But Dave?....I wanted to (click) The phone falls silent as I fell to my knees. There are no words to describe the feelings I had but I can say this. The feeling robbed me of smiling for almost 5 months.

What do you do? What can you do? We all know that begging and pleading DO NOTHING.

 

Showing up at their door and acting a fool doesn't work. Getting drunk or high is just plain stupid when trying to get an ex back. You might as well say goodbye now because the only thing you will be doing is justifying why they left you in the first place. Life can be so cruel.

 

What WORKS?!?! This is no secret. This is not some magical formula. This is something that is so insanely easy to comprehend. It's 100% free and requires no special skill or technique. The secret is time. The time you have while away from your ex is so important. Not to cry and have a bloody fit but you get YOU together. Think of your life without your ex like getting a jig-saw puzzle and throwing it into the air only to be scattered into a million little pieces. All you have to do is SEPARATE YOUR pieces from theirs. (Start with the edges..it's easier ha ha) You are separating a couple to being once again single. I didn't say it was THAT easy nor did I say you would like it but it is a necessary step in getting YOU back. If you don't get you back first, there is no way you can get them back regardless of how you left. Once you can piece YOU back together you need to get adapted to your single life.

 

Letting go of your ex doesn't mean letting go forever. It hurts ladies and gentlemen. It hurts like hell but it is part of the healing process. You must go through it to become the man or woman you need to be and always wanted to be. Think of your breakup like a butterfly in its cocoon. You must transform into the person you WANT To be..NOT WHAT YOU THINK THEY WANT YOU TO BE!! HUGE DIFFERENCE. So many people out there believe that losing weight and going to the gym is going to get an ex back. Psssst....let me fill you in on something. ITS NOT!!! Sure you look better but if you were a moron when you broke up and you have not learned from your mistakes...you will be a moron who looks better. Make sense? I hope so.

 

Let go of the notion that they love you for your weight. It's only a small part of the entire you. Work on your heart. If you had issues communicating with your ex, learn from it. Sit down and make a list of the thing you feel YOU need to work on. If you get your ex back in the long run, you will not only be better off, but they will notice the change in you and it will only make you look GLOWINGLY better in their eyes.

**Remember**

 

People change ONLY BECAUSE THEY WANT OR HAVE TO CHANGE..not because you want them to.

 

If you work on the issues you had while in the relationship and start to learn from your mistakes, the chances are you may get a phone call down the line and get that chance you have been hoping for. Don't wait too long. Learn that life is to be enjoyed. Breaking up is hard but learning from a breakup can be so rewarding in the end. Just think, even if they don't come back...look at the person you have become not only for them but for yourself.

 

Learn to love them even if they aren't with you anymore. They will always be in your heart and just know that part of them made you want to become the person you have always wanted to be.

If that is not love...I don't know what is.

 

Take care and God Bless...

 

I love you all

 

SuperDave71

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How Saint Valentine's Day is Celebrated Around the World

   
















By Daya Sugden

 

Valentine's Day - The History and Giving of a Special Gift

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Engagement Ring History and Tradition

By Rachel T.

 

Engagement rings are steeped in tradition and the practice of offering a ring as a symbol of commitment and love goes back nearly five thousand years to the ancient Egyptians.

The Egyptians believed that the circle of a ring represented an eternal and closed bond between a couple, and so began the custom of a ring offering as a symbol of

Moving forward a few thousand years to the late 15th century, we learn of the first documented case where the engagement ring was seen as a precursor to the commitment of marriage, and so began the tradition that we all know today.

The story goes that a smitten Austrian, Archduke Maximilian I of Habsburg, started it all on August 17th, 1477. Princess Mary of Burgundy, the Archduke's betrothed, was the first girl to receive a diamond ring to celebrate an engagement. He proposed marriage and placed the engagement ring on the fourth finger (or ring finger) of her left hand. This placement of the ring dates back to the Romans who believed that the "vein of love" or vena amoris began at the tip of the ring finger and flowed directly to the heart. And so began the tradition of not only the engagement ring, but also that it be worn on a specific finger.

For a few hundred years, the engagement ring became common practice for proposing marriage but the diamond engagement ring did not fully come into vogue until after a groundbreaking marketing campaign in 1947 by the DeBeers diamond company.

Frances Gerety, a young copywriter at the time, coined what became the best advertising slogan of the twentieth century according to Advertising Age magazine-the infamous "A Diamond is Forever". The ad campaign positioned diamonds as a symbol of love and commitment, and therefore the quintessential engagement ring. In an ironic twist to the story, the young copywriter never got married.

The smart folks at DeBeers who were looking for ways to further increase diamond sales, followed up the campaign by suggesting that two to three months salary was a proper amount to spend on a symbol of your love. And so began a new tradition for many, of extending one's self financially to be able to propose marriage.

History tells us that the ritual behind the ring is genuine and stems from ancient civilizations but what we view today as a symbol of the engagement and ensuing proposal is merely the product of clever twentieth century advertising
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How To Keep Your Man From Straying - Make Him A Faithful Guy Forever

 

 

The Top 10 Clues You're Dating a Married Man

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Make no mistake, married men who are fooling around can be wonderfully attentive and romantic. He can be emailing you and calling you on his cell all day long, filling your hungry heart with affirmations you never dreamed of, showering you with gifts, and making rapturous love to you. It can be the stuff of which fantasies are made and here's why: to him it IS a fantasy.
So how can you tell you're having an affair with a married man?

1. You're suspicious.

If you generically suspect every man you meet of this, it's a prejudice and not worth much. However, if you suddenly get suspicious about the individual man you're dealing with, then trust your instincts. Where there's smoke there's fire.

2. His tone of voice gets guarded or he won't make eye contact and is evasive when certain topics come up like family, children, vacations, where he lives, etc.

3. He insists that all contact be on his terms only.

He gives some reason why you must only call him at work or on his cell. You ask for his home phone number and he refuses to give it to you. Disregard the "reason." They can be ingenious about this and if you're love-daffy, you'll find a way to rationalize his particular excuse. Don't.

4. It's the best sex you've ever had.

Nothing stokes a man's fire like forbidden love unless it's forbidden love with no threat of the "c" word.

5. His heart's not on the line.

You sense an imbalance of vulnerability. When two available people are dating, both are anxious for it to work out, and equally at-risk. When you're playing for keeps and he's just playing, he won't care as much about how you're getting along. He has the security of the marriage and nothing to lose but an exciting good time.

6. There's a white line on the fourth finger of his left hand, a tan-line from where his wedding ring usually is, and is not when he's with you.

Or there's the outline of a ring in his shirt pocket
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7. He isn't fully disclosing when it would seem appropriate.

He alludes to "things he'll tell you about later."

8. He has odd reasons for not wanting to go to certain places (like your favorite restaurant).

You first met at a dance hall (where he's known and someone might tell his wife) and after that every place he takes you to is in another county. (There's a part of town he definitely avoids. Guess why?)
9. He pays for restaurants, motels, resorts, and airplane tickets in cash rather than by credit card.

10. He is never available on Sundays.

In some cultures, and with many men, Saturday night may be Boys Night Out, but Sunday is strictly "family time." Ditto for holidays. This is part of that peculiar male honor code: OK to cheat. But not on Thanksgiving Day. That's family time.

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How To Approach Groups Of Girls You Don't Know, And Get Them To Think You're Great!

 By Tiffany Taylor

For this example I’m going to use women at a bar. I will be going into lots of other techniques for non-bar pickups too but for now, we’ll stick with this.
 

(Note: In fact, I even recommend you try my top places for picking up that are not bars – they are WAAAAAAAY better than ANY bar and you’ll see a massive leap in your success rates with women.)
 

As you know, women don’t usually go to bars on their own. They go in groups.
 

Approaching GROUPS of women can be extremely daunting and if you don’t know what you’re doing, you can fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wolves they can rip you apart. I’ve seen men get cussed at, totally ignored and even drinks poured over them.

But if you do the approach RIGHT, then your success with a group of women can usually yield great results.
 

Whenever I suggest approaching groups of women I get LOADS of guys looking at me as though I’m from another planet. I realize that lots of guys probably don’t have the initial confidence to simply walk up to beautiful women they don’t know. Don’t worry, this can be easily solved. I’ll give you some simple tips here.
 

SIDE NOTE: If you have a major confidence problem then don’t worry, I have an advanced 155-page E-book called HypnoDate which almost exclusively goes into increasing your confidence with women – and it works through the power of self-reprogramming so it doesn’t matter how shy you are, this thing WILL work for you. It’s a bonus product in my site member’s area that comes with my book at no extra charge.
 

INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE MALL
 

Step 1. Walk around the shopping mall and when you catch a woman’s eye, smile at her – more often than not, she’ll smile back. To start with you can do this just with shop employees. Even if they don’t WANT to smile, they probably will. Good practice. And you might even brighten a few women’s lives a little.
 

Step 2. Once you’ve gained confidence in making natural eye contact and a smile with staff, you could move onto other women in the mall. I’m not suggesting big weird freak smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. A lot of women will smile back at you.
 

Step 3. Here’s where it might seem a little weird, but this really does help and practice and repetition will make this lots easier. Just say “hi” with a smile to women (and men if you like) as you walk around the mall. It will feel HORRIBLE at first if you are not confident but slowly, after an hour or two, it’ll seem easy.
 

After you’ve smiled and said hi to 20 or 30 women, you should start to feel good (as long as you don’t quit on your first negative response – this will happen and will happen when you’re approaching women to pick them up – you HAVE to learn to step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful with women).
 

One of my male friends did the “smile at girls in the mall” technique and he actually ended up meeting the girl of his dreams and is still with her 3 years later – how’s that for effective!
 

There are loads of other techniques you can do to build your confidence, most not quite as scary as the mall one. I go into others within my book…
 

Right, let’s assume you now have the confidence or at least the guts to approach women you don’t know in a bar (Again, I don’t just go into bar pickups in my book, in fact, I think the best places to pick up women are NOT in a bar – I think it’s everyday places where you’re not competing with other single guys).
 

Firstly, let’s suppose two girls are sat together at a bar. One is the ‘ugly’ one and one is the hot one (the one you like the looks of and would like to get to know more).
 

You see the girls. Go up to them and talk to them NOW! Don’t waste time. Within 3 seconds of seeing them, approach them. Some people call this the 3 second rule and I must say it really does seem to work.
 

If you see her and like her, it’s best not to think too much about the approach, or you’re more likely to work yourself into such a state that your approach will be ineffective or you’ll just pussy out altogether!

(Don’t worry I’ll tell you WHAT to say when you get there in a future lesson). So within 3 seconds, go TALK to her!
 

ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from the side or an angle from the front. !!!NEVER from behind – IMPORTANT!!!
 

If you go up to the group at the bar and approach from behind you will INSTANTLY invoke a negative response, and they will be put on the defensive - for obvious reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side...
 

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Making A Great First Impression On Women

 

By Tiffany Taylor

ALWAYS look your best. I know this sounds REALLY obvious but you'd be surprised by how many men don't understand the importance of this simple tip. You never know when the girl of your dreams will turn up, or where. And it’s become a bit of a cliché because it’s true -- first impressions really do count.

Here are some figures to consider from my studies.

If you make a GOOD first impression on a woman, you have a 90% chance of EVER getting with her at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be unreachable for most men at ANY point – she might like women herself etc).

If you make a BAD first impression your chances with her reduce drastically to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3 minutes of meeting her will be incredibly difficult if her first impressions of you were bad.

It’s the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly up one. Good first impressions means you’re on your way to the top in the helicopter, bad first impressions means you have a difficult climb to success – no helicopters for you.

Honestly, I can't stress this enough -- always try to look your best.

Tiff’s 5 S’s of first impressions.

Shave. Shower. Stylish. Smell. Shoes.

Remember these 5 S’s and always take care of them before you go out.

Why are shoes my number 5 S?

Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your clothing and hence your appearance. Make sure your shoes are clean and fashionable.

What you wear is very important. I could try to recommend a certain look but as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed.

Get the latest GQ magazine or other fashionable men's magazine's and imitate the styles you see there -- most women don't really care what labels you are wearing as long as you look good so you don't have to spend the Earth on clothing.

Many guys I help dress better usually comment on how strange they feel wearing clothes they are uncomfortable in, but nine times out of 10 they start to feel natural and even confident wearing their new wardrobe within days.

Make sure you smell good. Again this is extremely important. Remember how you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good - you feel an instant attraction even though you don't know her - well, that's how women feel too.

Wear a good-quality cologne, but don't spray too much.

One squirt on both sides of the neck, and one squirt on both wrists -- maximum. You don't want to smell too overpowering.

I recommend cool water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often called JPG love juice because women love it) if they don’t sell it where you are try to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT!

And here's a GREAT little SECRET that I have found will help you actually pickup about 24% of women without SAYING a word to them! Not a single word! And NO rejection either. You won't find this anywhere else either.
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8 Types Of Women To Avoid Dating

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by Melinda Sessa

A recent survey revealed that fifty two percent of men date for intimacy. Men are looking for that someone to get romantically involved with and a potential mate for life. There are women that a man should avoid dating. Here are signs to watch out for:

1.  The overly feminist. This type of woman assumes and believes man is the cause of all the pains and suffering of a society. It is her strong belief that women are much more intelligent than men and are capable of doing things “the correct way”. Men would not want to spend some time with these types of women, anything that a man will do will always be negative to them. They can never be pleased by a man.

2.  The material girl. She is just after the money! These types of women are “high maintenance”. They not just expect, but often demand that a man should finance all her luxuries in life. To her, the man has the responsibility to pay for dinners, drinks, trips, jewelry, flowers etc. while she absolutely feels compulsion or guilt to reciprocate. Simply put, she is a prostitute in disguise. She is a greedy person, having no perception of the feelings of others and her only concern is achieving and obtaining things that she wants. Never be fooled; some appear to be really nice at first, until they know that you would do anything for them. Then the asking for material things starts!

3.  The hopeless romantic. These women live inside a perfect world of romance in novels, where love and relationships are perfect and her night and shining armor will always come and they will live happily ever after. She has always been pampered by her and considered a "princess," thus have no idea that what the real life is. She will expect the man to take care of her constantly and that all her wishes be given; if not, she can turn out to be a screaming nag.  

4.  The angry girl. Similar to the feminist, she actually hates men. They often look down on men accounting a long list of all the injustice and transgressions of every guy that they shared a relationship with. To her, all men are "creeps", "pigs." and jerks. These women have boiling rage at men that can, at any given moment explode.

  5.  The insecure Miss. They will seem to be very pleasant, loving and accommodating at first, treating men very well. Later, when all her innermost insecurities go up the surface, she can be annoyingly calling the man she is dating at least ten times a day, asking where are you, or that she just missed your voice. This woman demands frequent and persistent reassurance that you love her and you find her attractive; because of this insecurity, she worries continuously about her hair, make up, clothes etc. She can be clingy, needing constant attention and insistently torments you with her thoughts that you will leave her soon if you find someone better.

6.  The abstract or elusive type. She is romantic but with a mysteriously dark side. She has been hurt in past relationships and has not gone over it. These bad experiences drive her to subconsciously stay way from or damage her new relationship. She will be very frustrating to deal with, as at first, she will show a lot of interest with the man, however runs away very quickly; she will repeat this cycle again and again. She will date and flirt with the man, but will insist that they both remain as friends.

7.  The desperate Miss. She is desperate to get married. She does not even choose to know the man; she just wants to trap him and bring him to the nearest altar!

8.  The controlling type. She can be very nasty in a very subtle way, but when given the opportunity, will direct each phase of a man’s life. She will always have a say as to what the man wears, where must the man go, who should the man talk to, who can a man have as friends, what a man can and can not eat; as in everything! The man can not insist on his own rights or else, there will be no sex, a lot of crying, screaming, pouting and everything just so the man will give in. To all men, careful!

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12 Nights of Passion: a Sex Game to Be Carried Out in Days…

by Gabrielle Moore

Sex games can be as easy or as complicated as you want them to be. There are those where you just whip out a sex game board and be done with it in a few minutes – nothing wrong with that! – but there are also those that take some time in its execution.

Your sex life should never be a routine. That’s why it’s important to engage in BOTH simple and more complex sex games. One benefit of the latter is that the longer you delay actual lovemaking, the hotter you guys are by that time!

12 Nights of Passion

This sex game is designed for super extended foreplay. The goal is to reach the 12th night without having intercourse, making the 12th night one of intense passion. Here’s a sample outline you can use.

Beware: before you DO have intercourse, you must be ready to pay up for all the expectancy that you created! To know how to give her the best orgasms of her life, go to:  Passion/Sex-Games

1st night – Have a romantic dinner either at home or at a fancy restaurant. While dining, play footsie and/or indulge in a little bit of groping underneath the table.

2nd night - Sprinkle red roses in bed, light some candles and play some soft music, and then just cuddle each other till you sleep.

3rd night – Play strip poker and once all your or your partner’s clothes are off, engage in a little dry rubbing, but that’s it! Don’t engage in having sex.

4th night – Play “silent dirty words”. Get a pen and blank sheet of paper each. Write a dirty word or phrase on the piece of paper, tear it off and hand it to your lover. Your lover reads it and then drops it in a bowl. Now it’s her turn to write another dirty word or phrase and hand it off to you. Do not talk in between this exercise. Just write, show the words and that’s it. The ‘loser’ is the one who runs out of dirty words first. (You will notice that at the end of this exercise, you guys have just collected a bowl of dirty phrases you can use for a future game!)  After the game has ended, laugh it off, have a bowl of ice cream or something and go to bed.

5th night – Play sexy twister. Take out the twister mat or board and play a traditional game of twister… naked.

6th night – It’s the sixth day, give yourselves a little bit of reprieve by engaging in some hot oral sex.

You can bring each other to a climax but do NOT engage in intercourse.

IMPORTANT: While engaging in oral sex, make sure to avoid the most common mistakes. Learn the proper techniques to satisfy your lover! Go to: Passion/Sex-Games

7th night – “Accidentally” leave out some adult-rated reading material for your lover to see and glance over. Make sure the erotica is hot enough to really bring about lust in your partner. When she asks you about it, feign innocence!

8th night – Give each other a sexual massage. Be naughty and daring but do not engage in lovemaking. You can engage in oral pleasure but not to the point of bringing on a climax.

9th night – Give your partner a call at an odd hour of the day, say 2 PM or whenever she least expects it, and engage in some phone sex. Don’t go too far; just get each other excited. After that, say you probably dialed the wrong number and hang up, or change your voice to ‘normal’ and simply say “love you honey, see you tonight for dinner” and then hang up.

10th night – Go online together tonight and preview a few adult-rated literotica.

11th night – Send naughty messages to your lover all throughout the day! Send a sex joke via SMS, email a long and dirty joke, and others. By the time you see each other tonight, pretend like nothing happened!

12th night – Shoot a short erotic video of yourself. Don’t go all the way. Instead, at the end of the video, look into the camera and tell your lover where you should meet tonight. It can be a hotel room, motel room or your own bedroom but fancily dressed up. The minute your lover enters the location you indicated on the video, do not engage in foreplay whatsoever! After all these days, you’re pent up passions will be enough for one of the hottest moments of your life!

The 12 Nights of Passion is designed to bring about so many things in your relationship. It’s a sex game of creativity and control. But its real goal is to make each day one of heightened sexual pleasure and longing for each other. Can you imagine how you guys will come together by the 12th night after all that waiting and sexual highs and lows?!? Give this extended sex game a try and be sure to do it more than once a year!

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Online Dating Advice for Men - Dating Tips and Advice

Dating advice for men comes in many forms. Every time I sit down with a single buddy from work, whether it's at the coffeehouse or in the break room, the subject dating comes up. Usually I'll hear about what a great time they had, but lately I've been hearing stories of dates that just didn't go very well. I'm always being asked for dating tips and advice. All I can tell you is what I do.

Online Dating Advice for Men - Dating Tips and Advice

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1) Listen to Her - You don't have to fall over yourself and swoon at every word she says. You do have to be polite and pay attention to her part of the conversation. Don't be checking your watch or start reading the menu when she's talking. Oh, and don't interrupt her. Talking over her to let her know that the next table's Steak Diane just caught the restaurant on fire, is, of course, acceptable. This is probably some of the best dating advice for men that I have received myself.

2) Ask an Open Ended Question - Questions she can answer with a simple yes or no mean you're going to have to keep on digging for something to talk about. A question about "why did you pick the career you did" is much better that "Where do you work?" This date advice for men is really one of my most successful tactics.

3) Try Some Sincere Flattery - This is a tricky one. Too much and you're over the edge. Too little and you might as well not have said anything at all. If you feel uncomfortable paying her a compliment on her appearance, try something a little more neutral. "Nice briefcase" might have to be it.

4) Be Honest and Sincere - Nothing is worse than a braggart. No one wants to hear how an endless recitation of someone's accomplishments. No one wants to sit through an evening of insincere comments and commentary. You don't have to be blunt, but you do have to simply be yourself. Always remember this dating advice for men on your date as it could end up saving it.

5) Remember What Your Mother Taught You - Remember those lessons in manners as well as the dating tips and advice your mother gave you? Open the door. Pull out a chair. Help her on with her coat. Chivalry is not dead and women, even the liberated ones, still like a gentleman who treats her like a lady.

Keep this online dating advice for men in mind. Try them out next time you're on a date. Simple things like this can change a date from marginal to absolutely stellar.



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Larry Haywood runs the website MyDatingTips.info which reviews the best dating personals sites online.








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